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Break up!!! break up!!!!!now I get it, you are simply tired of your relationship and you want to break up right? It's a good idea but have you consider the other side of this giant step you want to take? Not at all, I know you haven't just that you're driven by emotional grievances which is leading you to an end you don't even know about. This post is meant to reveal to you 5 reasons you don't have to break up with your partner;
WARNING!! If your relationship is less than a year old, I don't know what you are doing here, just browse for other more important posts I have here such as:
5 secrets to successful relationship
How to build sustainable relationship
10 ways to make your relationship work

This post is best for those whose relationship is more than two years old-check out why you don't have to really break up with your partner:

1. You don't even know what awaits you with the next partner
You want to quit your present relationship for reasons I don't know but I must tell you that the devil you know is far better than the Angel you don't know. May be your partner is not tired of you but you are not really happy with his/her character/attitude or how he/she treats you but you don't even know what you're going to get from the next prospective partner of yours.

My advice to you is that you and your partner can come up with agreement, check out yourself and know if you're the problem. May be you're demanding too much from your partner….you both can communicate and try to compromise personal interests so as to move on. You never can tell, the next partner may be worst than your present partner…..think about it. break up may end up to be your worst choice ever. Read up how to communicate in your relationship

2. You have invested so much time on your relationship
This is true my wonderful reader. You have invested much of your time building your relationship. You could have opted out in the early stages rather than waiting for this long time before thinking of breaking up. Time is more precious than gold as long as I'm concerned. Think about this, it's not too late to make adjustment in your relationship: you and your partner can still work things out. It is all about accepting to work things out.
harvest the energy you have invested in your relationship-break up may not be the best option.

3. No relationship is really what it seems to be
This is one fact about relationship as long as human beings are involved. Are you looking at that your friend's relationship? Are you looking at that couples next door relationship? Are you comparing your relationship with that of your parents? If you are doing any of this and want to break up your 5 years old relationship then, you must be out of your mind.

Every relationship has its own unique and peculiar problems. Some relationship may look so beautiful out side but go and check out things inside, you may be thanking God for your own relationship. Are you with me? What I have come to realize is that people hide their relationship problems a lot. They can only confide in people like us and not you. Stand up and face the challenges in your relationship and fix it up!!!!!! Break up may not be the right answer. Not all that glitters are really Gold.

4. Life does not always give you what you bargained for!!!
This is a simple fact about life: you don't always get what you bargained for in the journey of life. Don't be shocked but that's the truth. Some people may be having fantastic relationship but have been destined to live on earth for a very short time, would you like to be like them? Some may have the best life can offer but have been denied of internal peace and so on like that.

Make the best out of what you have. Remember, it's not all about living in a very big house; it's actually all about what you make out of the house whether big or small. Break up may not be your best choice, think about it.

5. You might have been the problem with your relationship!!!!
Yeah!!! The whole problem with your relationship might have always been your cause all these while but you never tried finding out. Read up 5 reasons you're having problems in your relationship. Even if you date someone who does not talk or look for any body's trouble, you may still be having big issues. In this case, break up is not the right option….work on yourself.

Finally, I hope you really understand the points I'm making here. If you study these 5 reasons you don't have to break up with your partner very well, you may find out that breaking up with your partner may not be the best choice to your relationship problems.
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